Don’t spy on your children, family, wife, or loved ones. Instead, give them the freedom they desire while guiding them on how to live. Stay available to help them when needed. People learn best from their own mistakes, and when they face problems, they will respect you even more.

You can tell them: “If you try to learn everything only from your own experiences and mistakes, life will be too short. But if you learn from others’ experiences, your life will be much happier.”

Make them wise enough to live independently without relying on others.

How long can you help them? What if you die early? Make them independent and wise enough to handle every situation on their own.